Sometimes you don't even mean to but you get to the eye opening moment of clarity and are surprised at the truth of things.
I don't feel sorry for myself and I am not a victim because I call out truth and refuse to accept your version of reality.
My refusal to accept bullshit is the opposite of victimhood. It's strength.
Disagreeing with you is not victimhood. Complaining about your burdens and responsibilities and reality is victimhood.
Nobody cares about how hard things are for you. How wrong you've been done. The world does not care.
Fools will coddle and wallow with you in weakness, but there is no value in victimhood. None.
Suffering is a part of life. It's the biggest part of life.
Your life, then, is ultimately how you deal with hardships and suffering.